Talking about death with kids is a topic most parents fumble with. Sometimes, though, especially when it someone close to a child is dying it becomes unavoidable. This picture is of a group of elementary school children, gathered around a coffin they have been building for their teacher who is has terminal cervical cancer.
This article explains: that she asked the woodwork teacher to build a coffin for her. He replied: "Why don't you let the children make it?"
Now pupils of the school in Someren, who normally plane wood for baskets and placemats, have been helping with the finishing touches. They have already sawed more than 100 narrow boards and glued them together.
The coffin now stands in the middle of one of the classrooms.
Although Miss van den Biggelaar can no longer teach, she has looked at sketches of the coffin and is being kept up to date about it by pupils, aged between four and 11, who visit her at home.
"Life and death belong together," she said. "The children realised that when I explained it to them. I didn't want to be morbid about it, I wanted them to help me. I told them: 'Where I will go is much nicer than this world.' "
As you would expect not everyone agrees with this approach. I have mixed feelings. Four seems a little young to be building a coffin, but I do think that death is way too much of a taboo, and that we err on the side of not integrating it enough our own daily lives, let alone in the lives of our kids. What do all of you think? Is this a good idea, or is the teacher taking things too far? How have you helped your kids understand death, or deal with the death of someone close to them? Please discuss and then go back the fun that is goodyblog. Link via neatorama